Gratitude is the Gift That Keeps on Giving

By Grant Kaul, Senior Pastor

Rejoice always; pray without ceasing; in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Gratitude is the gift that keeps on giving.

Have you considered just how great a difference gratitude makes in a person’s life?  The evidence is impressive.  A growing body of research has tied an attitude of gratitude with a number of positive emotional and physical health benefits.  A November 23, 2010 article in The Wall Street Journal summarized the research:

“Adults who frequently feel grateful have more energy, more optimism, more social connections and more happiness than those who do not, according to studies conducted over the past decade. They’re also less likely to be depressed, envious, greedy, or alcoholics. They earn more money, sleep more soundly, exercise more regularly, and have greater resistance to viral infections.”

“Now, researchers are finding that gratitude brings similar benefits in children and adolescents. Studies also show that kids who feel and act grateful tend to be less materialistic, get better grades, set higher goals, complain of fewer headaches and stomach aches, and feel more satisfied with their friends, families, and schools than those who don’t.”

The researchers concluded, “A lot of these findings are things we learned in kindergarten or our grandmothers told us, but now we have scientific evidence to prove them …. The key is not to leave it on the Thanksgiving table.”

Gratitude is the gift that keeps on giving.  As we learn to give thanks in everything, God’s will is accomplished, people are appreciated, God is glorified, and we are blessed in far greater ways than we may have imagined.  Christ is the Author and Perfecter of our faith and gratitude helps us savor His grace in the story of our lives.  His work in us and through us continues as we grow to express gratitude.  The best way to prepare for Thanksgiving is to practice it each day along the way.       

Where We Look Determines How We Live

By Grant Kaul, Senior Pastor

“O our God, will You not judge them? For we are powerless before this great multitude who are coming against us; nor do we know what to do, but our eyes are on You.” 2 Chronicles 20:12

Where we look determines how we live.

Difficulties have a way of demoralizing us.  All of us have first-hand experience with hurt and hardships.  Try as we might, trials, and even tragedy, are unavoidable.  We are fallen people living in a failing world.  Job nailed it when he declared, “For man is born for trouble, as sparks fly upward” (Job 5:7).

So how do we live when life is crumbling all around us?  Must we simply endure the pain of our problems?  Where is the high road when we feel so low?

When the weights of the world seem to be crushing us down, it is only by looking up to the God of heaven that we will find the help we so desperately need.  Do not wait for favorable feelings.  They may be few and far between when difficulties lead to despair.  Rather, direct your heart back to trusting God and ask Him to change your desire when your flesh is resistant to the idea. 

2 Chronicles 20 gives a picture of living by faith in the face of immense difficulties.  Follow in these footsteps and find yourself rising above your painful circumstances by: 1) recalling God’s character (20:6); 2) remembering God’s faithfulness (20:7-9); and 3) refocusing on God’s presence (20:12).

We need not fear or be dismayed.  God will accomplish His purposes and win our battles – both the ones in our world and in our hearts (2 Chron. 20:15, 20-30).  No matter what we are facing, we must learn to rejoice in the Lord (Phil. 3:1; 4:4).  Where we look determines how we live.  We live by faith in Christ.  He is the One who loves us and will never leave us.  Look up.   

 If you are looking for a place to seek and worship God, join us on Sunday mornings at 9:00am and 10:45am or check out past messages on our Vimeo site. We also have several care ministries designed to help you seek God in times of trouble.

Learning from Jonah

Ryan McCreery, Associate Pastor of Ministry Development

This summer over a hundred adults went through the book of Jonah together here at Fellowship in a weekly Bible study. This 8-week study seemed to have a profound impact on those who attended and sought to apply this Old Testament Scripture to their lives. As a way to wrap up the study and summer together, I thought I would share my personal take-aways from Jonah.

I heard many people say, “I am like Jonah, more than I thought.” I couldn’t agree more. It is easy to read stories from the Bible and think we would have responded differently. However, when we slide into Jonah’s sandals and walk a mile in his place, we experience just how difficult it is following God when we merely consider life from our own perspective.

You see, this book of the Bible is best known for the miracle which took place inside a fish. After being swallowed up, Jonah was in the belly of a big fish for three days, three nights and lived to tell about it. However, the greatest emphasis ought to be given to how God demonstrated His compassion for the people of a foreign city called Nineveh, and His calling on Jonah’s life to share with them His grace. For this is the only book in the Old Testament where God sends one of His people to the “gentiles” – to the nations – to share His desire for them to turn from their evil ways so that He might relent from judging them.

When Jonah received this calling to share, he disobeyed.  He thought God’s plan was unfair, and quite frankly, inconvenient and a distraction from what he ought to be doing to serve God.  He felt the Ninevites did not deserve God’s love because of how evil they were acting. In fact, as part of the Assyrian nation, the Ninevites were an immediate threat to Israel, Jonah’s country.  It did not make sense to Jonah why God would give them an opportunity to repent, so he up and left.  Additionally, God’s plan was quite inconvenient for Jonah.  Instead of staying safe in his country, God called him to “Arise, go to Nineveh” hundreds of miles away.  God encouraged Jonah to live on mission, completely dependent on Him, rather than living for self and doing what looked right in his own eyes.

This book will shake your foundation and get your attention if you are currently living for yourself.  Are you like Jonah?  I know I am, when living selfishly, apart from God.  When I choose to live for myself, I am unconcerned with the people around me and I am following an agenda that best benefits my goals.  If things don’t go my way, I merely see it as a setback versus seeing the situation from God’s perspective.  People become servants helping me to accomplish my tasks, instead of the opposite.  During these times, I certainly do not see the lost the way God does nor exercise compassion toward them.

I think Jonah serves as an excellent example of a conflicted follower of God.  There were times when he was disobedient and other times when he obeyed.  We don’t know ultimately how the end of the story went for Jonah because of the abrupt ending of the book.  However, we can conclude that Jonah was most miserable when running from God and living in direct opposition to God’s will.  Jonah was most blessed when turning to God and living for Him.

Therefore, as a believer in Jesus, having received grace and enjoying the steadfast love of God, let us not live like Jonah.  But let us intentionally live for God, viewing others the way God does. Let us seek to serve others, rather than being served.  Let us look past our differences and see that everyone is made in the image of God.  Let’s be kind, gracious and merciful to each another — in our homes, in our church, and in the world.  Let’s live with compassion, especially toward those who are lost and hopeless, looking to share about Jesus and the salvation that is only experienced when trusting in Him for the forgiveness of sins.  Simply put, let us live for God, extending to others the very thing we have been given — grace and love. 

If you joined us this summer, let me encourage you to live differently today, and every day.  If you didn’t, then pick up the Bible and read the book of Jonah with this in mind.  God’s compassion, grace and love is amazing; so let’s share it with everyone without prejudice, both in action and speech.

Sincerely in Christ,

Pastor Ryan

“You are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, and relenting from disaster.” – Jonah 4:4

How to Respond to Anxiety

Steven Knight, Family Life Pastor

Have you ever been worried before? Anxious about what might happen next in life? Anxious about what is happening right now in your life?

There are different worries that we deal with in our lives. Most of the time, anxiety strikes when we get surprised by different situations in life. An unexpected bill. Health problems. Car trouble. Financial difficulty. Relationship issues… the list could get pretty long!

In his letter to the church at Philippi, Paul writes about the topic of anxiety. How should Christians respond to anxiety? Should we be worried about certain things in our lives? Let’s take a look at what the Bible says:

Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses every thought, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. – Phil. 4:6-7

Our response to uncertainty in life should be to lift our requests to God, so that we can have the peace of God as we place our trust in Him during the trials of life. God cares for us and is able to provide for our every need. In fact, Matthew 6 shares how God cares for us:

“This is why I tell you: Don’t worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the sky: They don’t sow or reap or gather into barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you worth more than they? Can any of you add a single cubit to his height by worrying? And why do you worry about clothes? Learn how the wildflowers of the field grow: they don’t labor or spin thread. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was adorned like one of these!If that’s how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and thrown into the furnace tomorrow, won’t He do much more for you—you of little faith? So don’t worry, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’ For the idolaters eagerly seek all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you. Therefore, don’t worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” – Matthew 6:25-34

God is our Provider. Even through the difficult times, we can trust Him to lead us, guide us, and provide for our every need. In this process, He calls us to focus on today and not worry about tomorrow. He isn’t saying we should never plan ahead but is instructing us to not worry about what lies ahead, because God will care for us. We can respond to anxiety by placing our trust in God and lifting our requests up to Him in prayer. After all, the Father takes care of the birds of the air and the flowers of the fields – certainly He will take care of you as well.

If you would like others to pray with you, consider sending your prayer requests to our prayer chain email: Please keep in mind, these prayer requests are made public to the church. If you could use one-to-one care, consider reaching out to our Care Ministry or connecting with a Stephen Minister to walk along side you: